I’m a Dutch native and I also know English.
A while ago someone asked me whether I speak English at home because my English looked so good. My answer was no, I actually rarely really speak English. The only times I speak English are when I’m on holiday or when I happen to talk with a friend from an other country.
As for reading and writing I use English daily. I visit English internet sites and next to that I prefer reading books in English if the author is English/American most of the time.
So long story short, my English writing/reading is a lot better then my speech and sometimes I’m nervous when I need to speak English because the words don’t always come out as planned… so annoying.
Since The Netherlands is a multi cultural country I know there are also quite a lot of households who do live here but speak let’s say Turkish indoors and among their family and Turkish friends and Dutch for everything else. Sometimes children who are born here don’t even learn Dutch before they go to school which can give serious problems because they miss the basic knowledge for their age.
How about you?
And in the case of being raised bilingual, who did teach you the other language?
Or maybe one of the languages you know became rusty because you don’t speak it anymore?