You eat EARLY!
OooHHH Classic CULTURE Shock story:
My (momās) family (AND my hubbyās family) have no idea what time IS except the alarm that tells them to go to work. If you insist on a time, weāll say āohā¦ around 6?ā and they say, āThat is so late.ā so after a little back and forth we give in and accept that they want to eat at 4 PM. Of course, if they knew our extended family at all theyād start arriving around 7:30 PM. Food has a good chance of being ready by 8:30 - 9 PM. (This is what you call REAL āIndian Timeā)
I was raised with the concept of āWhen it is ready, we eat.ā It drove my dadās mom a little crazy because she depended on a clock to tell her when she was hungry. She would really push my mom to have dinner ready early. My mom would give in knowing full well that it would not be ready till 7-9 pm.
My dadās father was a pragmatist. One time I had been staying with them and gramma was trying to hurry us out the door so we would not be late. My grandpa decided to make himself a sandwich. And he ate it while my grandma said, āJerry, why are you eating? Youāll spoil your appetite.ā He just kept eating his sandwich and said, āI advise you to eat something.ā She hurried us out the door.
I used to think my gramma, while loveable was just plain old crazy when it came to times and such. THEN! in 1970, I went with her back east to Chicago to visit her relatives. They are ALL like that! Itās a culture thing! OH! Grammaās mother was from Sweden. G-gramma came to Illinois in 1898. She was a helper on a farm. Her dad was born in Illinois but his father was an orphan adopted by a German family back in 1848. My grandpa was born in Bohemia in 1900.
My Momās motherās side is from Ireland and Peru back in 1849 to California, Her dadās family is from the Azores and there are all kinds of international ancestors on his side - from Portugal, Japan, China, Goa, Morocco, Africa, Columbia, the Caribbean, Mexicoā¦ The Azores were a pit stop on the return sailing traffic to Portugal.
So my mom and dadās families were a MAJOR culture crash on things like, āBeing on TIMEā. ahahahahaha Time? What is time? time is relativeā¦