You eat EARLY!

OooHHH Classic CULTURE Shock story:
My (mom’s) family (AND my hubby’s family) have no idea what time IS except the alarm that tells them to go to work. If you insist on a time, we’ll say “oh… around 6?” and they say, “That is so late.” so after a little back and forth we give in and accept that they want to eat at 4 PM. Of course, if they knew our extended family at all they’d start arriving around 7:30 PM. Food has a good chance of being ready by 8:30 - 9 PM.
(This is what you call REAL “Indian Time”)

I was raised with the concept of “When it is ready, we eat.” It drove my dad’s mom a little crazy because she depended on a clock to tell her when she was hungry. She would really push my mom to have dinner ready early. My mom would give in knowing full well that it would not be ready till 7-9 pm.
My dad’s father was a pragmatist. One time I had been staying with them and gramma was trying to hurry us out the door so we would not be late. My grandpa decided to make himself a sandwich. And he ate it while my grandma said, “Jerry, why are you eating? You’ll spoil your appetite.” He just kept eating his sandwich and said, “I advise you to eat something.” She hurried us out the door.
I used to think my gramma, while loveable was just plain old crazy when it came to times and such. THEN! in 1970, I went with her back east to Chicago to visit her relatives. They are ALL like that! It’s a culture thing! OH! Gramma’s mother was from Sweden. G-gramma came to Illinois in 1898. She was a helper on a farm. Her dad was born in Illinois but his father was an orphan adopted by a German family back in 1848. My grandpa was born in Bohemia in 1900.
My Mom’s mother’s side is from Ireland and Peru back in 1849 to California, Her dad’s family is from the Azores and there are all kinds of international ancestors on his side - from Portugal, Japan, China, Goa, Morocco, Africa, Columbia, the Caribbean, Mexico… The Azores were a pit stop on the return sailing traffic to Portugal.
So my mom and dad’s families were a MAJOR culture crash on things like, “Being on TIME”. ahahahahaha Time? What is time? time is relative…
