Just about the time this list of very watchable gentlemen got posted, I got distracted by my phone crapping out on me and having to get a new one, so I could not reply and say, “Oh, yes, lovely men all” until now.
Have seen them all in various contexts and they are all wonderful actors; they have all kept me on the edge of my chair, waiting for their characters (depending on the drama) to successfully blow something up, take down an evil conglomerate, snatch a damsel in distress from train tracks, or FINALLY after many struggles, open their wounded hearts to the woman they are bound to by that red thread of fate.
Since I seem to be, in relationship to to most of the posters on this list, a REAL ahjumma, these gentlemen are young enough to be my sons. The actors I find attractive as men and admirable as actors you undoubtedly would see as cheesy and cringe-worthy.
Character actors in family dramas have always appealed to me. Family dramas themselves delight me because they remind me of all the books I loved as a child and young adult.
I have so many Charles Dickens novels. He had a very “K-drama” life, rising from utter, abject, unbelievable poverty to become first a muck-raking journalist and then the best known, best-loved, highest-paid, wealthiest writer of his era.
When young, he was very handsome, and he snagged a well-to-do wife.
(from Wikipedia)
Along the way, he and his wife became estranged, he took a mistress, he suffered from the stress of being found out, he and his wife eventually divorced (a scandal in Victorian England), he took ill on one of his many tours (by train) to read from his works to enraptured audiences, and he died after catching a chill, leaving one unfinished work, a tantalizing mystery with no solution.
Because he was busy being rich, he had little time to bond with his children–who all grew up unhappy and mediocre in the shadow of his genius.
https://observer.com/2012/12/daddy-issues-on-the-worthless-brood-of-charles-dickens/
Perhaps because his real life was really, really sad and crappy, his novels are full of main and minor characters that you feel sorry for and/or want to care about, even if they are despicable. His sympathy for the underdog is intense, and his pity for the wicked is as well.
Right now, two “Dickensian” family dramas that have me hooked are Be My Happy Family and A Good Supper. I just love these shows for their writing, their exploration of what keeps families together, what breaks them apart.
I also love all the food porn.
And THESE are the actors in family dramas that I personally find appealing: Nam Kyung Eup, Byun Woo Min, Kim Young Ho, Han Jung Ho, Choi Jung Woo, Ryu Jin, Im Hyung Joon.
“Ooh, Halmoni, how can you like them? They are so old!”
Exactly. I am older than Kim Hye Ok (who I think does a wonderful, plotting, over-the-top job as the scheming chef in A Good Supper.
https://mydramalist.com/people/1489-kim-hye-ok
Family dramas definitely appeal to me because they don’t spit out actresses and stomp on them once those actresses have “aged out” of the ingenue category.