OMO, this is so ME! I just can’t bring myself to look even scenes where they take of their shirt during a make-out session have me focusing my eyes on the corner of the screen so I can only see things blurred Call me a baby but I just CAN’T
If that ages you, I’m a ninety-year-old in a teenager’s body My favorite look on most men is a suit, black shirt or military uniform.
This is a pretty good evaluation of behavior, but it still doesn’t really suffice. Fans all over the world act exactly like this. I was in the One Direction fandom once… they all(Americans and Non-Americans) had their “husbands” and of course they take it as far as possible, writing fanfics and fantasies of being with (or being abused by this is terrible) the object of their admiration.
I think girls just like looking at pretty boys and the obsessed ones take it too far. They’re young and irrational, copying the behavior of the other fans they see. They want to be noticed. I haven’t heard of this in the kpop industry, but I’ve heard a lot of fans making out/having sex with these artists. They want to be validated, and these boys have just the right, scripted words. Celebrities all over the world have been harassed in all kinds of ways. There are enough videos of western artists being jumped on-stage. When EXO went to America, they were shocked at the way the girls there threw their underwear on stage.
We should go to the Segue Cafe to have a nice, long discussion… including the differences between western and kpop fandoms
@sweetybirdtoo I think our posts on SM’s boys and men in suits actually summoned Minho!!
He posted this an hour ago:
and this was a week ago but it’s a good picture
I miss him so much I know he had some personal things going on and has left the limelight for the most part but I hope he comes back - looks like he is back on his variety show - I’m so glad
Blood was a great, gripping drama and had good kissing. I watched the "docudrama about the first year of his marriage and was charmed by it. Looking up information on that, I discovered he is now divorced. Too bad, but I guess the old saying is true everywhere: “Marry in haste, repent at leisure.”
Yep! I put that in summary because I wanted to High Light Him! I follow him on Instagram - he posts very infrequently and he has had a rough time! I like him very much and wish him all the best.
Do you know how many times I had watched scenes of the guys from ‘Crudeplay’ from The Liar and his Lover before I realized that the drummer is Jang Ki Yong? I’m so bad sometimes.
I just realized that too, because I started re-watching it now that it is on Ntfx.
It’s really quite interesting to me to go back to some of the early things I watched and realize who some of the people were in the dramas before I actually “knew” who they were.
My hubby would laugh at me all the time because I wouldn’t look. I’d look away from the screen and wait for the scene to change. I’d just tell him I wasn’t a voyeur.
Call me a baby but I just CAN’T
this is terrible) the object of their admiration.
Too bad, but I guess the old saying is true everywhere: “Marry in haste, repent at leisure.”
I’d just tell him I wasn’t a voyeur. 
