Dirty jokes are interesting. There are “dirty” jokes that have to do with celebrating the fact that we are all human, we all have quirks. A good fart joke at the right moment brings people together. I can swap jokes like that all day long. In fact, once I get started, I can’t quit.
Other “dirty jokes” are not just dirty, they are soul-killing, and I will have none of that kind of humor.
There are “dirty” jokes that are told purely for the purpose of humiliating and alienating people and denying them the dignity of their inherent humanity. Think of what Korean comfort women had to listen to while their abusers were waiting in line for a quickie.
And it’s been the same since human history first started being written down. Across cultures and across continents, in times of war, in times of peace, there are men AND women who thoughtlessly humiliate others with the ugliest, most demeaning “jokes” they can come up with.
There is a place in the lowest levels of Hell for such people.